tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-463478134903492898.post5402051801821282315..comments2023-03-25T05:08:39.013-04:00Comments on Restructuring: Dating? Not so much.MarieAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18254698755322316913noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-463478134903492898.post-54343646457602133782010-02-25T20:48:18.125-05:002010-02-25T20:48:18.125-05:00nice thoughts Rudy. Thank you. (-:nice thoughts Rudy. Thank you. (-:MarieAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18254698755322316913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-463478134903492898.post-76356995685281651472010-02-25T15:48:09.803-05:002010-02-25T15:48:09.803-05:00I didn't date for a while, actually I never da...I didn't date for a while, actually I never dated. <br /><br />I went to group events and had a good time. It was kind of a bummer when there were couples and I wasn't one of them but it was never THAT bad. <br /><br />One benefit I had was a good friend of the female persuasion that went with me to music events at the performing arts center. In a way, they were practice dates and I asked her for feedback to see how I would be doing if it "were a date"<br /><br />On the plus side I got good feedback. On the downside, we were already pals so she may have been overlooking something that someone new might not cuz she already knew my quirks. One thing that I found very surprising was that I was actually nervous the first few times with someone I already knew! Like she said "it's only me, no need to be nervous". that may have been not having anxiety meds adjusted LOL<br /><br />as for internet dating, you know how I met my blondie. it has definitely worked out well for us. I know i would have been too shy to walk across the room the and strike up a conversation. <br /><br />I know of a couple people who have met on the webs and it has been good. I don't recall if any of them used any "services"<br /><br />so I guess my advice is just do what needs to be done and even though people will ask about it, don't let it bother you. My response was always a simple nope, not yet. When they asked why not, I would just shrug and say time isn't right yet. then drop it. <br /><br />Like Lily says, just do what you do and have fun cuz you want someone who wants the real you<br /><br />hang in there,<br />{hugs}Rudyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06478492198414071465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-463478134903492898.post-41801959344122179182010-02-22T08:43:45.081-05:002010-02-22T08:43:45.081-05:00Dating is a process.
A) you are not going to me...Dating is a process. <br /><br />A) you are not going to meet someone playing Bejewled. (I know, I play it too).<br /><br />B) internet dating is skanky.<br /><br />C) best to meet someone by doing what you like doing and not scrapbooking with girlfriends, but by being YOU.<br /><br />D) you will meet someone when you are ready, in the mean time, go to functions with friends, you just never know who may be there.<br /><br />These are all the things I have learned by being single for eleven years! LOLLily on the Roadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01598295903641371197noreply@blogger.com