Moving on .

I've been blogging for a few years now. Sometimes sporadically sometimes daily, but almost regularly. I have finally separated from XSU and starting to live a new life on my own. The original blog helped me get through the painful process of the end of the marriage, along with some bumpy roads dealing with a critically ill child in the midst of the end of marriage mess. Now this blog will see me through the new paths and adventures that life has to offer. Restructuring my life. My way. My experiences, ventings, musings on that whole big and not so big deal.

March 14, 2010

Sunday Snippets- watch this space for an update

Had a rather "meh" type weekend.

I am quite sure that having Rebel, her dog and her dog of a BF is taking its toll on me. We had a rather big blow out this afternoon, and she just doesn't seem to realize that home is home, but she has to respect what I want. Having her around these days is like having a bad college room mate. Remember those days? I'll be talking to the XSU this week to suggest strongly that she go live with him. And takes her little dog too. Watch this space for an update.

I am learning that being a teacher is damn hard. I already knew that, but now that I have to write exams for my class. Oy! I blew the multiple choice test I designed, and this week I'll see what I can do with the short answer quiz. Watch this space for an update.

Going to see U2 in 3D at the Imax. It's gonna be better than seeing them live. I saw a Rolling Stones concert at the Imax theatre and it was totally better than a live concert. Watch this space for an update.

I believe I successfully fought off a cold this week. I would like to believe that the echinacea I've been taking regularly, plus the mega doses of ColdFX did the trick. Watch this space for a final update.

I went into work today for a couple of hours to get my planning documents done. Also finished a five year review of my budget. I've been trying to get to that little project for the last two weeks. Got it done in under two hours. yeah me! Now my boss will get his bonus. Gotta love management. go UNION!

Watch this space for more updates. In the meantime, as a friend told me on Facebook today... gotta love the wine.
Happy Week people.


Rudy said...

U2 concert movie sounds like fun.

never had a 20 y.o. at home so can't help you there. Although, I am a firm believer that they follow the rules set by the owner of the home.

MarieA said...

ya know Rudy, it's not even so much the rules as it is an attitude. She just has this really cocky attitude about expectations.
She makes a mess, I should clean up. Her boyfriend has a ton of laundry and I should supply the detergent.
He has dirty teeth, I should supply his tooth paste. And he works for a living.
Perhaps it is rules, but it is also about how to live together.

Going forward it will be how I want it. The XSU has made it very difficult for me, because he would never back me up or participate as family. Now I am stuck paying this price.
I really believe she needs to go live with him. She will drive him up a wall outside of 30 days.