Moving on .

I've been blogging for a few years now. Sometimes sporadically sometimes daily, but almost regularly. I have finally separated from XSU and starting to live a new life on my own. The original blog helped me get through the painful process of the end of the marriage, along with some bumpy roads dealing with a critically ill child in the midst of the end of marriage mess. Now this blog will see me through the new paths and adventures that life has to offer. Restructuring my life. My way. My experiences, ventings, musings on that whole big and not so big deal.

September 24, 2009

Restructuring: Life after marriage ends.

The end of the marriage has begun. It would seem that I really should move on and the spousalennuie needs to be done. From now on it is restructuring time.
And wow am I restructuring. I am starting with foundations. The basement rec room. I've had it completely gutted and and am rebuilding it from the cement walls - got rid of the nasty panelling and it is being replaced with gyprock. Rebel Junior would like the walls painted a shade of yellow. I can go with that. I want her to be able to spend time here with her friends and be comfortable and if the colour of the room helps make a difference so be it.

My personal restructuring has also begun. I've changed all my " emergency contacts" at work. I have a good friend from church up on first and and she has my two brothers up on her list. I've kept them all in that loop. That was a big one.


Lily on the Road said...

Yellow is nice, glad to hear that you are fixing up and getting on....good for you.

Seperated from XSU, shouldn't that say, divorced..??

MarieA said...

HI Lily,
Not divorced yet only separated, legally. Divorce will happen when it happens I guess. XSU will pay for that. I have money going on the Catholic annulment process instead.
Watch for the photos of the now very bright yellow basement rec room!

Anonymous said...

Excellent new digs, girlfriend. Looking forward to pics of the new decor.

love and hugs,
~ b