The end of the marriage has begun. It would seem that I really should move on and the spousalennuie needs to be done. From now on it is restructuring time.
And wow am I restructuring. I am starting with foundations. The basement rec room. I've had it completely gutted and and am rebuilding it from the cement walls - got rid of the nasty panelling and it is being replaced with gyprock. Rebel Junior would like the walls painted a shade of yellow. I can go with that. I want her to be able to spend time here with her friends and be comfortable and if the colour of the room helps make a difference so be it.
My personal restructuring has also begun. I've changed all my " emergency contacts" at work. I have a good friend from church up on first and and she has my two brothers up on her list. I've kept them all in that loop. That was a big one.
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Yellow is nice, glad to hear that you are fixing up and getting on....good for you.
Seperated from XSU, shouldn't that say, divorced..??
HI Lily,
Not divorced yet only separated, legally. Divorce will happen when it happens I guess. XSU will pay for that. I have money going on the Catholic annulment process instead.
AND!!!
Watch for the photos of the now very bright yellow basement rec room!
Excellent new digs, girlfriend. Looking forward to pics of the new decor.
love and hugs,
~ b
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