Moving on .

I've been blogging for a few years now. Sometimes sporadically sometimes daily, but almost regularly. I have finally separated from XSU and starting to live a new life on my own. The original blog helped me get through the painful process of the end of the marriage, along with some bumpy roads dealing with a critically ill child in the midst of the end of marriage mess. Now this blog will see me through the new paths and adventures that life has to offer. Restructuring my life. My way. My experiences, ventings, musings on that whole big and not so big deal.

November 06, 2009

He's So Cheap Even The Birds Sing About Him.

The weekend is nearly here – Thank goodness.  I have had a busy week at work while at home the activity level has dropped substantially since Frenchy left on Tuesday to return to France.

We went out for dinner with Frenchy and of course XSU was along.  He made me pay 50% of the bill.  I expected that, but really – I was the one who took the girls to Niagara Falls and Toronto, I have had them with me nearly the entire time and yet he couldn’t for over $40 for a road house meal.  I roll my eyes.

This weekend I’ll be doing up the expenses for Frenchy’s visit, as well as my monthly child support from XSU.  I hate spread sheets but on a spread sheet it will all be tallied and emailed to him.  RJ will take him the supporting receipts – AFTER I copy them. Then he will have to cough up his share. 

Rebel has been getting head aches.  She calls them tension headaches and thought it might have to do with her glasses.  She’s been once to the optometrist and has a second appointment next week for more tests.  He may either recommend her to see an ophthalmologist and/or a neurologist depending on what he finds.  It’s always something with that girl.  He thinks she may have a lazy eye that is refusing to focus and this is what is causing the headaches, but he’s checking out everything else too.

XSU gave Rebel and her BF his car, but he refused to put her on his insurance. Refused out right!.  She still drives his car because she needs to get around. I am trying to stay out of that one but I am coaching her on what she needs to do to get on his case about this.  It’s just plain foolish.  I am not understanding what his issue is, but then again, have I ever understood his issues?  


Rudy said...

wow, that is pretty risky giving her a car and no insurance. he is setting himself up for ruin.

not that this is your problem directly.....

Lily on the Road said...

Can't comment on SU and car + insurance...

headaches however, get that checked, I had WEEKS of headaches before my "flu bug"...

Anonymous said...

At least he is predictable.

Dang. I can't believe that Frenchy's time is done. Now you can look forward to some peace and quiet since RJ has said she is going over to SU's house as soon as she is gone. I wonder if SU knows this yet. tee hee!

Good that Rebel is going to go have the headaches checked out. Better to know than not to know.

That car/insurance thing. Good grief. I hope she is driving extra carefully. *sigh*

Happy Friday, Marie!
love and hugs,
~ b