It's been a busy week. Between board meetings, and this teaching gig, and now not sleeping well at night, I am not accomplishing much else in my off time. I finally was tired last night and fell asleep at 9 PM.
This evening Rebel went out with her friends and expected me to come pick her up. I told her that her adult self should not be depending on mommy for a ride. I told her to call the boyfriend from where ever he went and he could do the honours. She was not impressed. WhatEV.
I guess that's a good thing.
A friend's daughter from our church is going on this same exchange as RJ and at the end of the presentation she came over and we started to chat. XSU interrupted - something he is very good at , and started asking me questions about the latest cheque he expected from me from the health plan and blah blah... I couldn't believe it, but I should have. I looked at him and told him I was busy chatting and he could take it up on email or wait. He continued TO TALK!!!! So I took Natalia's arm and looked at him and said "I am busy right now," and we walked away. Natlaia looked at me and said " no sense of time or place eh? Roman (her husband) noticed this about him a long time ago, but course we would never have said anything. Ach! you can do better!"
And of course XSU couldn't wait til I was done. As it was I had sent a cheque in an envelope with RJ and she never bothered giving to him even though she sees him daily.
Moving on .
I've been blogging for a few years now. Sometimes sporadically sometimes daily, but almost regularly. I have finally separated from XSU and starting to live a new life on my own. The original blog helped me get through the painful process of the end of the marriage, along with some bumpy roads dealing with a critically ill child in the midst of the end of marriage mess. Now this blog will see me through the new paths and adventures that life has to offer. Restructuring my life. My way. My experiences, ventings, musings on that whole big and not so big deal.