Moving on .

I've been blogging for a few years now. Sometimes sporadically sometimes daily, but almost regularly. I have finally separated from XSU and starting to live a new life on my own. The original blog helped me get through the painful process of the end of the marriage, along with some bumpy roads dealing with a critically ill child in the midst of the end of marriage mess. Now this blog will see me through the new paths and adventures that life has to offer. Restructuring my life. My way. My experiences, ventings, musings on that whole big and not so big deal.

January 25, 2011

The doing in the dating

Looks like this girl might be back in some game. The big date went very well. It was dinner a lot of talk and a lot of ummmm good old fashioned kissing. Intense it was. And very satisfying. The Very Nice Neighbour, AKA VNN formerly known as the Widower ( yes Blondie name change seemed appropriate) neighbour, and I seem to be hitting it off. Well.

We are now in email mode. I find I like flirting via email a whole lot more than I do in real life. You do lose the sashaying about, and the batting the eyes thing, but it works for me.

Going into French class at 7:45 AM today, one of my work friends asked about my date. I am pretty sure the stupid silly grin on my face gave me away... and she exclaimed " OMG!! did you *DO* him already!?!" I spewed my coffee and had to laugh. Really want to, but not going there just yet.

But to back track, the man googled me! And I have to tell you, it's embarrassing because there are at least ten pages of stuff about me, and my brother doesn't turn up until about page 12! And what surprised me not just that he was impressed, but had some very nice things to say about some of the stuff I have myself involved in.

I can't help but make comparisons to the XSU - I mean really, what else have I got? And the bottom line? There are NO comparisons to be made made. None.

So... I've been walking around with a silly grin on my face and heading out post date night for evening tea and enjoying this lovely surprise in my life.


Lily on the Road said...

Clean slate girlfriend...never look back!

Good for you....

Now you can teach me french, I'm listening to french CBC every weekend and I'm trying to read beginner baby books. J'par parle les francais!!

Anonymous said...

WTF? I thought I responded to this. Stupid blogger.

No comparisons if you can avoid it. One is not the other.

You will *do* him when you are both ready. No rush, dear.

HA! I love that he goggled you. And the flirting via email is nice too.

You sound good. Take a photo of that silly grin,, k?

love ya!

Lily on the Road said...

LMAO at the Blonde, "He goggled you!!", bwaahahaha, not that I'm laughing AT you Blondie, just with you...

and yes, You'll do the "do" when you're ready too!

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